The Roller Coaster

Grief can be a roller coaster

Instead of a series of stages, we might also think of the grieving process as a roller coaster, full of ups and downs, highs and lows....
Like many roller coasters, the ride tends to be rougher in the beginning, the lows may be deeper and longer.

The difficult periods should become less intense and shorter as time goes by, but it takes time to work through a loss...you not really move on or forget but day's will get easier to deal with and they tell me that you become more experience with it in time....
Even years after a loss, especially at special events, such as a family wedding or the birth of a child,
we may still experience a strong sense of grief....It's only normal...
The sting of death...Is very great... and very much a enemy of mankind.

Even you think you got it all together, then here it comes again, something is said, that makes you think of a time that was very painful, and it was sad, and you are about to loose it...and you can't even get up from where you are, because so many people are in the way....

Then here you are again, it was okay for a day or two; then your like oh, today is a good,day "then that over wheleming feelings" are back once again, keeping you from doing what you, may have wanted to do, and
I can't seem to find joy or fun anymore, not much anyway....
Pray, pray,pray...is all I can say....

Many hills you will climb, and these are the times you must do it to carry on....